Dyslexia = Daily Sex
Leela asks:
#1a) as a man, if you were to receive daily sex would you not be happier, more respectful & satisfied in your relationship?
In my particular relationship, well, no. That's actually too categorical and simplistic an answer, though. To use a cliché, it's quality, not quantity, and it's only a part (albeit an important part) of the relationship as a whole. I suppose if the question is a relative one, I would have to say that yes, more frequent sex would help, but only if it's good sex, rather than dutiful sex. But no amount of sex is going to make our marriage perfect.
#1b) would you be less likely to seek out porn/masturbation/other women for sexual release?
Again, that's rather beside the point. It's not about relief. Frankly, for me it's about variety. For some people, the infinite variety within the sexual encounter is enough; knowing the subtleties of one person's response leads to increasing intimacy, etc.
In my case, however, I've known exactly what I have from the start. And the joys of our relationship are virtually unaffected by our sexual relationship one way or another. Strange, but true.
So I would be unlikely to lose interest in seeing and being with other women as a direct result of daily sex at home. I might be less able to perform elsewhere, but there's more to the experience than the performance of the act. Which brings us back to square one, I suppose.
#1a) as a man, if you were to receive daily sex would you not be happier, more respectful & satisfied in your relationship?
In my particular relationship, well, no. That's actually too categorical and simplistic an answer, though. To use a cliché, it's quality, not quantity, and it's only a part (albeit an important part) of the relationship as a whole. I suppose if the question is a relative one, I would have to say that yes, more frequent sex would help, but only if it's good sex, rather than dutiful sex. But no amount of sex is going to make our marriage perfect.
#1b) would you be less likely to seek out porn/masturbation/other women for sexual release?
Again, that's rather beside the point. It's not about relief. Frankly, for me it's about variety. For some people, the infinite variety within the sexual encounter is enough; knowing the subtleties of one person's response leads to increasing intimacy, etc.
In my case, however, I've known exactly what I have from the start. And the joys of our relationship are virtually unaffected by our sexual relationship one way or another. Strange, but true.
So I would be unlikely to lose interest in seeing and being with other women as a direct result of daily sex at home. I might be less able to perform elsewhere, but there's more to the experience than the performance of the act. Which brings us back to square one, I suppose.
posted by Adam at 12:42 PM
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